Balls

This is the latest link of game given by Miss Pau. The objective of the game is to stay inside the box by dodging the aggresive balls.

I actually should not be the one writing the "realization blog" as it was Miss Pau who interpreted the game's connection in life. But since the realization was in perfect aim to yours truly, I decided to write it. And mind you, it took me 3 days to realize the lesson being pointed out. True! it is really hard to recognize own flaw.

Anyway, back on the game. If you will try to play the game, you will realize that you have three options to remain in the square: 1) you need to dodge the balls and 2) you need to go against the balls 3) you need to take the push but eventually make your own move. Otherwise, if you will just remain susceptible to the moves of the balls, you will end up defeating your purpose of staying in the game.

I am like that most of the time (I know many of you too. ) It is realy difficult not to be influenced by others. If you are gullible or just simply having a hard time saying "no" to a request, you will end up being pushed to the edge. Manipulated is the proper term.

Relative to the game, you need to either 1) get yourself out of the tight situation when you know that you will just end up giving in to the request 2) learn to say "no" and 3) be wise on decerning when to give in, how much to give in, and when to go against it.

It is hard but for your own good, you should make your own moves.

"The art of leadership is saying no, not saying yes. It is very easy to say yes."

- Tony Blair